Ambiguouslygay, Atlanta Writes...
dear ron,
i really need some advice. I have a flamingly homosexual roomate, and I don't know what to do. The biggest problem is that I don't know if I'm gay or not. I try to figure this out by watching him sleep every night while I play with his hair. He threw water on me this morning and it really turned me on. I'd really like some advice.
Thanks,
Ambiguouslygay, Atlanta
Well, if your roommate is a flaming homosexual, and you are sure of this, then the first part of your problem is solved. The fact that he DOES swing that way. However, now you have two dilemmas: 1) You might not be gay. 2) He might not be interested in you. So for the first part of this troubled equation, you must know if you are gay. Make sure that you are actually gay. Are you attracted to women? Do you find the curves of their bosoms and bottoms attractive? Are you attracted to men? Do you find their muscular arms comforting when you need someone to go cry to? If you answered yes to both of these, then you are bisexual. However, I urge you to reconsider your sexual orientation and be sure you are what you are because that is who you are and not because of the pressures of society or the pressures of your roommate.
Now the second part to see if he likes you in that way, or if he likes you just as a friend. If he is more touchy feely with you than with other homosexual guys, he likes you. Unless he is a shy person. If he lets you pay when y'all go out together, that might be an inclination that he likes you.
Well, I hope these words helped. This might be the only half way serious post ever.
But my problem is that I have lately been enjoying the company of the curvaceous body of a woman whilst accompanied with large muscular arms of a man. Maybe with your tips, I will be able to find myself.
Posted by tsu | December 1, 2006 3:27:00 PM CST
i thought that was great advice, very candid and to the point, and i like the pic :)
Posted by Steph | December 6, 2006 12:41:00 PM CST
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